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Too Relieved To Grieve
The Alternative Heartbreak Handbook
My mindset journey through Hell to triumph
“If it wasn't for you, I'd be where you are now. Thanks, babe."
Karan never expected to be divorced. After 24 years of building a home, a family, and a thriving local business with "Perfect Steve," she believed in the sacred permanence of her marriage vows. But when Steve’s apparent midlife crisis led him into the bed of her once best friend, the "Perfect" façade didn't just crack – it detonated, blowing the family’s life apart.
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The marriage immediately collapsed into a molten hellscape of abject poverty and terrifying homelessness, leaving Karan to navigate her two emotionally brutalised young children through the smouldering wreckage. But as a professional Performance Mindset Coach and Mentor, Karan quickly realised a surgical truth: Her errant and flailing husband hadn't just left her and abandoned their children; he had bestowed his problems and darkness upon her nemesis.
Too Relieved To Grieve is more than a heartbreak handbook – it is a darkly-comedic dismantling of a 24-year co-dependent trauma bond. It tracks the emergence of ‘The Imposter’ (the monstrously ominous shadow self of the once Perfect Steve), and the ultimate liberation that can be achieved when you realise the person who "stole" your life, actually saved you from it.
And so the standard was raised and the Phoenix rose from the ashes.
For the first time, Karan drags her vulnerabilities kicking and screaming into the light to provide a "Call to Arms" to anyone whose life has been similarly smashed and splattered by the callous misdeeds of those once loved.
This is a road map of how to stop surviving and start prevailing; let’s go!
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